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Why Some People See Ghosts and Other Apparitions There are potential explanations (even if some people won't believe them). I have personally experienced auditory, olfactory and visionary hallucinations due to severe PTSD. It was a frightening experience but once understood what was happening I gained some sense of solace.

- July 31, 2015

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/out-the-ooze/201507/why-some-people-see-ghosts-and-other-apparitions?utm_source=FacebookPost&utm_medium=FBPost&utm_campaign=FBPost

How Creativity Works in the Brain - More than 30 years of cognitive-behavioral research has informed our knowledge about creativity, but there is little neuroscience to back it up. The field needs neuroscientific validation of existing tools to assess creativity in individuals. If effective, these tests can be adopted more widely by our nation's educators, employers, and other decision-makers. Read more: http://www.dexigner.com/news/28109

- July 31, 2015

http://www.dexigner.com/news/28109

Music - Flight Facilities - Clair De Lune (feat. Christine Hoberg)

- July 30, 2015

This photo has given me a little shock this morning. I can see the pain and exhaustion in my face and shoulders. It was taken on the afternoon of the sentencing. I got out of my pj's to dress for this shot then got back into my pj's hopped back into bed and have hardly been able to function since. Hartman is in jail and this has made what happened to me all the more real. I don't regret the last 17 winters and would do it all again but now I need to recover from my marathon battle. I feel as though I have been climbing a rugged mountain and reached the frozen peaks. Now I will be gently climbing back down to get back to steady ground.

- July 29, 2015

http://www.starweekly.com.au/news/no-more-winters-as-maireads-abuser-does-time/

Yoga : Aligning to the Source. This Film short introduces audiences to the vast subject of Yoga. Millions of people around the world today practice some from of Yoga and this Film explores the origins of Yoga, its development and practices, its integration across religions in India, the science behind it and its successful spread all over the world.

- July 28, 2015

On 8th August I am Master of Ceremonies and a presenter at the Hero's Journey Collective Exhibition. Every cent of the profits on this event will be personally given to the people of Nepal by Atira Tan who offers life saving support for women and children through her foundation The Art2Healing Project. The recent earthquakes in Nepal have left vulnerable women and children easy pray for sex slavers.There are some tickets still available but if you are unable to attend please use the link provided to make a donation.

- July 27, 2015

http://www.theherosjourneycollective.com/

Marianist brother who taught at North Catholic gets 2-year term for sex abuse in Australia July 25 : By Peter Smith / Pittsburgh Post-Gazette. A two-year prison sentence cannot repair the lifelong trauma of being sexually abused from age 8, but an Australian survivor of abuse by an American Roman Catholic religious brother says his incarceration is a sign of progress.

- July 26, 2015

The story of Brother Bernard Joseph Hartman's arrests has been published in his home town of Pittsburgh. Sadly, a statute of limitations stands in the US so it is very unlikely that Hartman will face charges for crimes committed there. http://www.post-gazette.com/news/world/2015/07/25/Marianist-brother-who-taught-at-North-Catholic-gets-2-year-term-for-sex-abuse-in-Australia/stories/201507250054 The day of sentencing has really taken it out of me. I am so tired, and my head aches. I have never been a person to hold a grudge. My philosophy is generally live and let live but for the sake of the protection of children I fought feelings that went against my natural state and pursued Hartman. the final court result is 3 years with one suspended. Once Hartman serves his 2 years in jail he will most likely be sent back to the States. I know that this short term might anger some but please keep in mind that most perpetrators of historical crime serve no ...

Today's events have really taken it out of me. I am so tired, and my head aches. 3 years with one suspended. Once Hartman serves his 2 years in jail he will be sent back to the states. I know that this short term might anger some but please keep in mind that most perpetrators of historical crime serve no sentence at all. My heart goes out to all of the survivors who have undergone the harrowing experience of facing their abuser to have the offender walk free. Please see today as a progressive step in the right direction. 2 years for three counts of sexual crimes of the most severe nature and 4 other crimes of assault are worth a LOT more than a short 2 years.

- July 24, 2015

http://tenplay.com.au/news/melbourne/2015/7/24/paedophile-catholic-brother-jailed It's about time. It took me 16 years and I would do that 16 years over again if I needed to. For those who live in Victoria Australia who may wish to report abuse SANO Task force does not require you to take criminal action if you don't want to. You can make a report with no obligation to take the matter further and you will be directed to organisations that can help with healing. Please find information about the SANO Task Force below. https://www.victas.uca.org.au/communitys…/Documents/Sano.pdf

Can Art Be Medicine? I use art in many forms to express my inner thoughts and feelings. I find that creativity allows me to delve into places that words cannot do justice. I can also tell an entire story with authenticity and depth while maintaining safety. I can then process what I have learned about myself by having a conversation with my work.

- July 23, 2015

The Science of Stress and How Our Emotions Affect Our Susceptibility to Burnout and Disease by Maria Popova How your memories impact your immune system, why moving is one of the most stressful life-events, and what your parents have to do with your predisposition to PTSD

- July 21, 2015

http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/07/20/esther-sternberg-balance-within-stress-emotion/

In 1999 I was sent an apology letter from Brother Bernard Hartman in response to an impact letter that I sent him.He had been sexually abusing me for a number of years when I was between the ages of 8 and 11. The apology was short and meaningless.He did not hand himself to police, he did not make any possible amends, he has not shown any empathy to me or other survivors and he has drastically prolonged our fight for justice. So this has made me ask myself the question, ' What is a true apology? "

- July 21, 2015

The letter sent to me by Brother Bernard Joseph Hartman November 3 1999 "Dear Mairead, This letter is an acknowledgement of the hurt I caused you by my actions many years ago. I acknowledge the pain that you must have experienced and the feelings that you expressed in your letter to me. I know that I have been the cause of this hurt, and I do acknowledge my part in that. I am sorry. Bernard Hartman, SM" So what makes an apology a true and empathetic expression of regret for treating another person in "ALWAYS LURKING" It is my birthday in 2 weeks. I turn 51. This will be The first birthday since I was 7 years old that I am truly believed without question, that I was sexually abused by Hartman. One day I hope to release my wounded child but for now, all I can manage is to let her know that I am here for her and that I love her. such a way that the recipient feels that their pain has been understood, validated and treated with respect. Often it comes i...

Walk for Health: The Best Medicine - I am so very fortunate to to have grown up and live near the beach. I am connected and grounded when I engage with the environment and nature.

- July 21, 2015

In about a months time, my eldest son, Lachlan Mackinnon heads off to the U.S to participate in the World Indoor Lacrosse Championship hosted by the Iroquois Nations. Like the Iroquois,Lachlan held his first Lacrosse stick as a newborn and played his first game at the age of 2 and a half. He is still seeking the funds to pay for the trip. If you can manage a couple of dollars please go to Lachlan's Go Fund Me Page. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity and he has trained extremely hard. I am so proud of him.

- July 20, 2015

What is Lacrosse all about? https://www.facebook.com/SportsIllustrated/videos/553445713233/?pnref=story Lachlan in his Australian Lacrosse Uniform Funding site - http://www.gofundme.com/ubrcj8

Please Don’t Kiss Me – Respecting My Child’s Personal Boundaries. "When a child clearly states that they do not want to be touched, hugged, or kissed, I expect adults to respect that."

- July 19, 2015

http://picklebums.com/2014/09/04/please-dont-kiss-me/

Childhood Trauma Leads to Brains Wired for Fear: If you're an adult and life's been good to you, and then something bad happens, that sort of injures a little piece of the whole structure. But toxic stress in childhood from abandonment or chronic violence has pervasive effects on the capacity to pay attention, to learn, to see where other people are coming from, and it really creates havoc with the whole social environment.

- July 17, 2015

http://soundmedicine.org/post/childhood-trauma-leads-brains-wired-fear